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We’ve looked at ways to keep control of your story, set boundaries, and care for yourself before and after sharing. Whatever stage you’re at, remember: your story belongs to you, and you get to decide when, how, and with whom to share it.
As we reach the end of this guide, here are a few points to hold onto.
It’s okay to take your time—feeling ready matters more than timing.
You’re in control of what you share, and who you share it with.
You can set boundaries, change your mind, or stop at any point.
Not everyone will react as you hope, but that doesn’t change what’s true.
Caring for yourself before, during, and after sharing is part of healing.
You’ve done something brave by exploring this topic. Even reading about it can bring up strong feelings. However you decide to move forward, give yourself credit for taking the time to reflect and care for yourself. Healing isn’t linear, and we don’t have to face it alone—support is always here when needed.
As we reach the end of this guide, here are a few points to hold onto.
If you’d like to learn more or find extra support, we’ve gathered a few resources that might help you to continue healing at your own pace.
Resources are organised in alphabetical order.
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We would like to give our thanks for use of the following resources in creating this guide:
RAINN: Telling Loved Ones About Sexual Assault
Why Many People Don't Talk About Traumatic Events Until Long After They Occur
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