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DIY Online Safety Guide
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Before we begin

Experiencing digital abuse can be deeply distressing, traumatic, and draining, so it can be helpful to take a pause before beginning and set an intention to approach this guide in whatever way feels comfortable.

Before we begin

Experiencing digital abuse can be deeply distressing, traumatic, and draining, so it can be helpful to take a pause before beginning and set an intention to approach this guide in whatever way feels comfortable.

Look after your wellbeing

We set our own pace

We have permission to go at whatever pace feels right for us. It’s okay to skip sections, come back later, or just focus on one small step at a time. Our wellbeing is the most important thing.

We ground ourselves

When dealing with difficult emotional issues, it’s important to take care of ourselves and our nervous system, and grounding exercises can help with that. Here’s one example that can be used over and over, but other breathing exercises, meditations, visualisations and more are available free on our healing platform, Bloom.

Slow breathing exercise

This is a simple, quick exercise we can do anywhere to calm your system and connect with our body.

In this exercise, we’ll take 3 deep, slow breaths. Find a comfortable spot, either sitting or lying down. Take your time. When you’re ready, close your eyes and start to notice the sensations in your body. 

  1. Slowly breathe in for a count of 4.
  2. Pause at the top of the breath.
  3. Now exhale for a count of 8.
  4. Pause at the end of the breath.
  5. Repeat this process another 2 times, or more if you like.
  6. Allow your breathing to return to normal. 
  7. If you’re lying down, curl to the left side of your body, and come in a seated position.
  8. Now, very slowly open your eyes. Welcome the new calmness in your body.
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What do you need right now?

This guide covers some key types of digital abuse, and they may not be relevant for everyone. You can skip straight to the situation closest to your experience, pick out a few to focus on, or you can read them all. Choose your starting point below.

Someone targeted me for a scam
You might feel: Confused, anxious, unsure what to do
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Someone is harassing me online
You might feel: Isolated, unsafe, and exhausted
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Someone has my personal images
You might feel: Anxious, ashamed, exposed, unsafe
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Someone is tracking my location
You might feel: Like someone always knows where you are
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Someone accessed my accounts without my consent
You might feel: Powerless; your identity isn’t your own
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It's something else
You might feel: Like you don’t fit in the other categories
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I just want to see everything
You might feel: Keen to protect yourself from digital abuse
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